I was torn on whether or not to write about this, but seeing as this blog is here to share love stories between our couples, well… There’s no greater love story than that of Wallace and Evelyn.
Today Nate and I are in Indiana celebrating the life of his late grandfather, Wallace.
Wallace was one of the first computer programers in America. He was never without his camera and a smile, and everyone in town knew and loved him. Nate and I went to the post office in Linton a couple years ago and when the woman at the register found out that Nate was Wallace’s grandson, her face lit up. Every time he’d leave the post office, down the stairs out front, she’d see him playfully jump over the last two steps. 85-year-old Wallace.
More than anything in the world, Nate’s grandpa adored and cherished his wife. 10 years ago when I met him, it was clear that Wallace didn’t think he married the most amazing and beautiful woman in the world, he knew it and let everyone around know. This became even more obvious in the last few years once his health took a turn. He’d go the whole day without speaking. Then after dinner, I’d hear him whisper a sweet “I love you” to his wife, like he spent the whole day saving up the energy to let her know how he felt.
There are a few memories that are so incredibly special to me that I’ll always remember about their relationship: Two Christmases ago, Nate snuck a kiss with me when no one was around at the bottom of the staircase in his grandparents’ home. Turns out, Grandma was on the other side of the room, and she gave us the funniest look of shock with a smile and walked away with a, “well, well, well!” The next day, Grandma told me that Grandpa, who didn’t see the kiss, randomly kissed her in the very same spot that Nate did. “I guess that’s the kissing spot, huh!” she smiled.
My other favorite was one of our first times seeing Nate’s grandpa after we eloped. We were all out to dinner, and Nate was seated next to Grandpa, me next to Nate. After the family prayed, Nate kissed my hand, and Grandpa smiled at him and whispered, “Aren’t we lucky?”
I will never, ever forget that special man, the first grandfather figure I had in my life. His legacy is a wonderful one, with his two amazing daughters and three grandchildren- One who shares his energy, good heart, love for technology and photography, but most of all, unwavering love for their wives.
Godspeed, Grandpa- We love you.
Oh dear… now my face is all wet and streaky. Wallace sounds like my Grandpa – a very special man with a love deeper than the ocean for his family.
May he rest in peace. x
Love this. Always loved the pics throughout the years of them. Thanks for sharing their love with us <3
Jensey & Nate, thank you for sharing Wallace with us. It’s so wonderful to read about someone who loved life so dearly and was clearly loved by so many. My thoughts are with you.
I’m sitting here with tears in my eyes this morning. I’m glad you decided to share Wallace’s story because it’s awesome.
xo jonni xo
The paragraph about not speaking, but whispering “I love you” brought me to tears! I love how even though he was Nate’s grandpa, he was yours too. What a privilege to know someone as sweet as him. His grandma was a lucky lady to be married to such a man. Guess that mean Nathan has some big shoes to fill! :)
You have a way with words my dear Jensey…
That is one sweet picture along with a sweet post.
My eyes are leaking.
I hope one day hubby and I will grow old and sweet just like them.
I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful post about a very special man. Sending hugs to you and Nate
What a beautiful post! Hugs to your and your families through this difficult time.
Condolences to you both!!! :( That is a lovely story, and a lovely picture.
Wow, what a legacy of love…So sorry for your loss. This post was a beautiful tribute to a special love story.
Such a wonderful post and wonderful way to remember someone who was so dear to you guys. You, Nate and his family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending so much love to you and Nate. A beautiful picture and a beautiful post.
He sounds like he was a really wonderful man. Thank you for sharing these beautiful memories with us. Hugs to you both.